From ancient times we are all familiar with these lines: 'Mard ko kabhi dard nahi hota' or 'Men don't cry'. Men are all grown up with these thoughts that they don't have to cry over small things like girls, they have to take care of their family, but trust me men are more emotional than women.
They are more sensitive than girls, which is all right, but they always try to hide their emotions from their family, children, and girlfriends.
Girls always complain that our partner doesn't understand us or no one can understand girls but boys are harder to understand. Girls, if you want your boy to understand you, firstly you have to understand him, you have to firstly feel their emotions. Otherwise the gap of understanding will always become wider.
Illusions about men's
The differences in the likes and dislikes of things start from childhood only, boys are always asked to wear blue instead of pink, men are preferred to play with toy cars, aeroplanes instead of dolls or kitchen sets and this difference continues till the end of life.
It's not just the matter of pink or blue or cars or dolls but it's the matter to understand boys. If they want to wear pink they can wear it without any hesitation that it suits only girls.
We girls always question our parents and society that why boys are allowed to freely roam at night? Why don't they need any permission for a night out or to roam freely on the roads?
But girls, we have to understand that if they are allowed to do night outs it doesn't mean that they always want to roam here and there. They also like to stay at home and spend time with their family, and watch their favourite shows.
The boys who drink, take drugs or have any bad habits are proven to be bad people. Society doesn't accept that person, but having some bad habits cannot decide a person's character for the lifetime. These men are not at all bad, their bad habits can be changed. All men do change themselves for the girl who matters them the most to whom they love the most.
According to reports, men commit more suicide than girls in India because they are hiding a lot of emotions in their heart. Hiding a lot of feelings is not the solution for any problem, instead facing that problem opens many doors to the solution.
Why to hide emotions? Just because that is what others will think about yourself that you felt bad over these little things, hiding because others will judge you. But you all have to understand that no one's opinion is so important than you life.
You must have any one person in your life to whom you can tell anything without fearing of being judged whether it's your wife, girlfriend or your friend. If you have then you are blessed person in this world. And you are more blessed if anyone can listens to your silence also.
Who can understand your situation without telling them. Even boys are proven to be better friends than the girls. The opposite gender friends have more understanding nowadays than same gender friends. Girls can freely tell their problems to your male best friend and you have all trust that they will give the best possible advice.
Yes Men do cry, men do cry when they see someone in pain, men do cry when they see their parents cry, men do cry when their sister gets married, men do cry when the girl to whom they loved most, left them.
Men's day
Men's day is celebrated on 19th November all over the world. Just wish for all the important men in your life whether they are your father, brother, friend or boyfriend. Just wish them and tell them that you are blessed to have such great mens in your life. Feel them special on their day, celebrate with them and tell them that without them you are nothing. Their presence matters the most in their life.
Girls, we always complain to boys that they don't understand us, or they don't come over our expectations. They have too many bad habits. But it's our time now to understand boys' feelings, their silence, their responsibilities, their career, their goals, their emotions.
They are always taught to only give things, they never demand anything from us. They just expect that they must be understood by their loved one's. So let's change thinking about boys and respect them as they respect us.
About The Author:
Noor Mehta, a 19-year-old from Punjab India. As a student of management, she became a blogger when she was 18 years old. She loves to read and has an optimistic outlook on life. She is eager to express her feelings and thoughts through my-lekh.com for the first time. She has rich experience working with different niche websites.
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